Ah, Jingle Bells. I swore off singing it cause of its high octane jingly joy which stopped matching how I feel about Xmas. But, last year I was looking for winter/holiday songs that didn’t mention Jesus or Santa and lo and behold… Xmas is nostalgic and all I REALLY want is a togetherness that is more than just being in the same place with loved ones and actually about the ingredient of connection, a shared feeling of gratitude for togetherness and presence. Like a sleigh ride? Maybe. It’s not my